Woedebui
'n Woedebui, woedeaanval of vloermoer is 'n emosionele uitbarsting,[1][2] gewoonlik geassosieer met diegene in emosionele nood, wat tipies gekenmerk word deur hardkoppigheid, gehuil, geskreeu, geweld,[3] uittarting,[4] woede, gekerm,weerstand teen pogings tot pasifikasie, en, in sommige gevalle, slaan en ander fisies gewelddadige gedrag. Fisiese beheer kan verlore gaan; die persoon kan dalk nie stilbly nie; en selfs al word die "doel" van die persoon bereik, sal hulle nie gekalmeer word nie. Om 'n woedebui te gooi, kan daartoe lei dat 'n kind in time-out geplaas word, gronding , of selfs skooldetensie of geskors word uit die skool vir ouer skoolgaande kinders.[5][6][7][8][9][10] 'n Woedebui kan ook uitgedruk word in 'n tirade: 'n uitgerekte, woedende toespraak.[5][6][11]
In die vroeë kinderjare
[wysig | wysig bron]Woedebuie is een van die mees algemene vorme van problematiese gedrag by jong kinders, maar is geneig om in frekwensie en intensiteit af te neem soos die kind ouer word.[12] Vir 'n kleuter kan woedebuie as normaal beskou word, en selfs as maatstawwe vir die ontwikkeling van karaktersterkte.[13][14][15]
Terwyl woedebuie soms gesien word as 'n voorspeller van toekomstige anti-sosiale gedrag,[16] in 'n ander sin is hulle bloot 'n ouderdomsgeskikte teken van oormatige frustrasie,[17] en sal mettertyd afneem gegewe 'n kalm en konsekwente hantering.[18][19][20] Ouerlike inperking waar 'n kind hulself nie kan beheer nie — eerder as wat die kind oënskynlik eis — kan wees wat werklik nodig is.[21]
Selma Fraiberg het gewaarsku teen "te veel druk of kragtige metodes van beheer van buite" in kinderopvoeding: "As ons elke geval van broekwisseling, skattejag, slapies, waterplas en vullisverspreiding in 'n regeringskrisis verander, kan ons maklik hewige uittarting, woedebuie en al die vuurwerke van opstand in die kwekery veroorsaak.".[22]
Verwysings
[wysig | wysig bron]- ↑ Album, Cabinet (1830). "The Cabinet Album A Collection of Original and Selected Literature". The. Hurst, Chance and Company: 92.
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- ↑ 5,0 5,1 Penelope Leach. "What is a tantrum?". BabyCentre. Besoek op 20 Maart 2011.
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- ↑ Daniels, Elizabeth; Mandleco, Barbara; Luthy, Karlen E. (2012). "Assessment, management, and prevention of childhood temper tantrums". Journal of the American Academy of Nurse Practitioners. 24 (10): 569–573. doi:10.1111/j.1745-7599.2012.00755.x. PMID 23006014.
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- ↑ Robin Skynner; John Cleese (1993). Families and how to survive them. p. 177.
- ↑ Isaacs, S. (1940). "Temper tantrums in early childhood in their relation to internal objects". The International Journal of Psychoanalysis. 21: 280–293.
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- ↑ Potegal, Michael; Davidson, Richard J. (Junie 2003). "Temper Tantrums in Young Children". Journal of Developmental & Behavioral Pediatrics. 24 (3): 140–147. doi:10.1097/00004703-200306000-00002. PMID 12806225. S2CID 23682833.
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- ↑ Roy Benaroch (2008). Solving Health and Behavioral Problems from Birth Through Preschool. p. 157.
- ↑ Kopp, C.B. (1989). "Regulation of distress and negative emotions: A developmental view". Developmental Psychology. 25 (3): 343–354. doi:10.1037/0012-1649.25.3.343.
- ↑ Levine, Linda (1995). "Young Children's Understanding of the Causes of Anger and Sadness". Child Development. 66 (3): 967–709. doi:10.2307/1131944. JSTOR 1131944.
- ↑ Patrick Casement (1990). Further Learning from the Patient. p. 113–4.
- ↑ Selma H. Fraiberg (1987). The Magic Years. p. 65.